I Feel Defeated

Hi Scott,

I am a 21-year-old single female. For as long as I can remember I have wanted to buy a house, because my family rented and we did not have financial security growing up. I have been conservative with my spending, worked two jobs and managed to save $90,000, but house prices are skyrocketing. This is not even enough for a deposit on an entry-level unit in far outer-east Melbourne. I feel absolutely defeated. Maybe it is better to invest money in ETFs (Exchange Traded Funds) and just rent for life?

Anna

Hi Anna,

You need someone to sit you down and show you just how amazing you are, and that person is me.

You should be really proud of yourself. There aren’t too many people who’ve saved up $90,000 on their own steam. Fewer still who have achieved it at age 21, by scrimping, saving and working two jobs.

There’s absolutely no reason to feel defeated. On the contrary, I’m here to tell you that you’ve already won.

See, financial security doesn’t come from a dollar figure, or buying a house.

It comes from behaviour. It’s the grit to work hard, sacrifice and save, and you’ve got that by the bucketload.

So, after years of doing this, let me make a few predictions:

First, to answer your question, you will buy a house ‒ when the time’s right.

Second, you’ve already changed your family tree ‒ you will never be financially insecure.

Scott