Help Me Get My Hubby’s Money

Hi Scott,

Two weeks ago, my husband had a workplace injury that left him with a shattered skull and in an induced coma. He is now in an acquired brain injury unit. He is making progress each day but the long-term impacts on him, his work and our life have yet to be discussed. I only work two days a week as we have two young children. The question is, as we have separate bank accounts, how do I gain access to his account? And what do you suggest I do to support my family financially?

Kelly

Hi Kelly,

What an absolute disaster!

I can’t imagine how stressful this would be for you … so I’m going to be very specific on what you should do.

First, you need to lawyer up.

Provided your husband was not a contractor, his employer must, by law, have Workers Compensation insurance.

Here’s the dance: you want the maximum payout, whereas the insurer wants the minimum. That’s why you need a workplace compensation lawyer to provide you counsel.

Second, hopefully your husband has both a medical and financial power of attorney (POA), so you can act on his behalf, and if not, get them written up. That’ll allow you to access his bank accounts.

Finally, after you’ve put the kids to bed, pour yourself a cuppa and write this five-part ‘breathing room’ letter:

1. Explain what has happened to your husband.

2. Write emotionally about the effect his accident has had on you and your kids.

3. Describe what the loss of income has meant for you so close to Christmas.

4. Ask for a minimum three-month moratorium on your payments (so you won’t have to pay anything till February 2022). That will give you breathing room while you explore compensation arrangements and apply for any Centrelink payments you may be entitled to.

5. Attach any workplace or medical reports.

Bring this letter when you see your lawyer and let them look over it.

Then send it to your bank, your insurer, your utilities providers, and any other companies that will be charging you big bills in the next few months. (If you’re not sure where to send them, Google the provider’s name and ‘hardship department email’).

If any of your creditors give you any pushback, email me back and I’ll sort it out for you.

Scott.