Down the Rabbit Hole

Hi Scott,I have a spinal cord injury and am paralysed from the chest down. I am self-employed and lucky enough to have a wonderful wife and two great kids. Health-wise I probably have 10 good years left, as I have been in the wheelchair now for 20 years and kidney problems tend to happen at the 30-year mark. I am 46 and earning $80,000 and I want to put my kids through private school, but I also want to see them grow up, not just work and come home exhausted. What is your advice?

Chris

Hi Chris,I’d seriously consider not sending your kids to private school.Why?Because you say you have 10 good years to spend with your kids.Personally, I’d rather spend less time working -- and less time stressing about work -- and invest that time into your kids. If I were in your situation, I’d do two things. First, set up a direct debit into an online saver, so that you put your savings on autopilot. Second, spend that money on experiences you can do with your kids: travel, sporting events, hobbies.Good luck, and good health.

Scott

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