I Ruined My Husband’s Life
Hi Scott,
My husband’s business has taken a massive hit, and I am entirely to blame.
He is a part-owner of a successful business for the past eight years. They have finally reached the stage where they are able to expand, and just a few weeks ago were approved for a significant loan.
Today, they received a call informing them the loan has been withdrawn: because years ago when they were setting up the company I was made a director, and I am bankrupt. (My husband and I have totally separate finances. I have nothing to do with the company, and own no shares. I am just a stay at home mum to three young kids).
When the business’s bank sent the paperwork to the seller’s bank, they were flagged my insolvency. The loan was immediately withdrawn. Because of me. Now I have single-handedly destroyed the future (and present) of my husband’s business partners, and the business they have all worked so hard to build. I am at a complete loss as to what I can do, short of divorce.
Ingrid
Ingrid,
Dial down the drama!
You haven’t ruined the business. And you don’t need a divorce, though a competent accountant would be nice.
You can’t be a director of a company if you’re bankrupt (so you should have left before you went bankrupt). But you can fix this; just call your accountant and have them lodge with ASIC and get it cleaned up. Then have your husband explain the situation to the bank -- that you’re basically a patsy director who owns no shares. If the business’s financials stack up (and the directors can offer the appropriate guarantees), they’ll get the loot. If the financials don’t stack up, they won’t.
Now the thing for me that is drama-worthy is that you and your husband still split the bills like you’re flatmates. That’s going to strain your relationship, if it isn’t already (and it sounds like it is). You need to work as a team, split everything down the middle, and make joint decisions. Do it for your kids.
Scott
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